Category Archives: memoir

Read my guest article in the latest issue of “Smart Healthy Women”

Thanks to Smart Healthy Women for allowing me to make a guest appearance in their magazine and on their site.   Read my article “How I Lose my Wife” at:  smarthealthywomen.com

New Review from noted sex expert JE Ellington, “Dr. E”

James Chapman’s How to Loose Your Wife to Another Woman reminds us that we are all normal and we are all nuts when it comes to our sexuality.  His achingly honest memoir helps us all contemplate how we balance what we need, versus what we think we want and what we can live with, in our intimate relationships.  How to Loose Your Wife will be a comfort and support to the millions of people who are living, or who have lived in a Mixed-Orentiation Marriage. But even beyond that, his work can help us all look more realistically at our human relationships,  to realize that our sexual selves are much less static than we often think.  Sometimes exploring this can provide couples, freedom.  Sometimes it is destructive.  But being true to ourselves through the journey, is the only way to reach the other side intact. Thanks for being a guide on this journey James!  —JE Ellington, PhD. “Dr. E” sexscienceandnature.com.

Thanks Dr. E for such a stellar review!  –James

The Book is Here!

The paperback is available now on Amazon and the Kindle edition will be available 8/25/14!  Please buy, enjoy, and leave a review on Amazon and Goodreads.  If you’re on Goodreads, make sure to add it to your shelf so others can see it!  Thanks for your support!

 

 

Read my guest post “Even the Best Mixed-Orientation Marriages Fail”

I just published my first guest blog post!  I’d like to send a big thanks to thinkingaboutgettingdivorced.com for having me. Here’s a link to “Even the Best Mixed Orientation Marriages Fail

 

 

AVAILABLE SOON – LIKE IN THE NEXT WEEK OR SO

That’s right.  My book has finished production and will soon be available on Amazon in both paperback and Kindle formats.  I’ll keep you posted on the big launch event.  I’m going to have a promotion with a prize, and of course, a special introductory offer for the book.  I’m trying to make the Amazon best-seller list for the week of launch and I’ll need a little help from my friends.  –so I’ll let you now when it’s on sale!

Best,

James

James Oliver Chapman – Author

When my wife of 16 years revealed she wanted act on a growing sexual interest in women I became a straight spouse. There are between two to three million of us who are, or have been, in a marriage with a lesbian, gay or bisexual spouse. Welcome to a blog that chronicles my journey; past, present and future. Please feel free to comment or share your own story anonymously. And please explore the links to find out more about my memoir, How to Lose Your Wife to Another Woman—available now on Amazon!